Last night's date...

I had a good time with Thomas. It was pretty much what I expected and what keeps happening on these dates, I have a great time, the guys are super nice, I'm just not attracted to 'em. It's really starting to piss me off. I hoped that by spending more time with these guys I'd find something about them that would tell me, ok, yeah I really like this guy, or I could see myself dating him... but, I've only gone on a 2nd date with Ross- and yeah, definitely know nothing is gonna happen there. Someone give me some advice!?